4-Living in the Light of the Eternal:Death and Beyond
This
life is not all there is.
Socrates once said that philosophy is the art of learning
how to die. Life itself is preparation for the moment of death. Anthony Bloom,
in Beginning to Pray (1970), quoted his father this way.
I want to
be quite clear. God values this life. The process of evolution is long. It took
a great deal of time to reach this moment of history. In terms of our
individual lives, this biological entity has never existed before and will
never exist again. Even if they could exist again, that biological entity would
have a different set of experiences that would set it apart. This world is our
home. We have a treasure, a unique gift, to share with others. If we follow God's plan, we will love this
world in the way that God loves it; we will invest our lives in it the way God
has invested in it.
Yet, we must not grasp or cling to this
home as if it alone is our home. Our temporality suggests the eternal, out of
which we carve a brief period in which we live. We need to live our lives in
light of eternity. In that way, we learn to value this life properly. We
embrace people and life; we live passionately, lovingly, and justly. Yet, we do
not cling to relationships, things, or countries, as if our happiness depends
upon them ultimately. In Christian
Perfection, Fenelon (1651-1715) has a sharp way of putting this truth.
"Is this then the world to which we are so devoted? We only pass through it. We are on our way out."
Living
from the perspective of eternity changes our values. We learn to use time and
material resources wisely. We place a higher premium on relationships and
character instead of fame, wealth, success, power, or pleasure. We have a
discerning read of the present, refusing to have the pull of what is popular
today dictate our lives.
Reflecting
upon suffering and death helps us to consider the limits of a human life. Our
hopes and dreams have limits. Sometimes, things beyond our control, such as
disease or accidents, bring an end to our plans and goals. We have no option
here. Suffering and death constitute a human life. Some people, sadly, seem to have
suffering as their lot in life.
We view
our lives as a good. Consequently, we
often fear death, even though we do not know what lies beyond. Fear of
death may even come from a fear of having wasted the brief time we have here.
We want to live longer and healthier, for we think that, given more time, we
might use that time better than we did in the time we have had. We regret lost
opportunities. We have guilt over what we have failed to accomplish with the
time we have had. In fact, one wonders how deeply the fear of death may
influence our thought and behavior throughout life, especially if we suppress
thinking about death because it is too depressing.
Yet,
reflection upon the end of our lives can cause us to reflect upon eternity, and
therefore to reflect upon God. In that sense, any fear of death we have is a
holy fear, for it helps us to imagine this world without our presence. What
influence will we have had upon those whom we meet who will continue after our
bodily life is finished?
Some
people view death as simply part of the biological flow of life. They say it is
no big deal.
I have
seen people die well. Death was like a completion of a life well lived.
We honor
the courageous because they willingly face the possibility of death. The police
officer, fire fighter, and soldier, know they face the possibility of death in
a conscious and intentional way that people in their everyday lives do not.
Sacrifice is what the courageous willingly do. They face a fear most of us keep
in the background of our lives.
Suffering
and death reminds us of the broken and fragmented character of a human life.
Yet, it also motivates much of our behavior. The vision of the suffering and
death of others motivates many persons to relieve suffering and discover the
causes of what we consider pre-mature death. When others are in danger, the
instinct is there to help, if we possibly can. Suffering and death call out of
us qualities like that of compassion and generosity toward others.
Always remember that whether you are alive or dead matters nothing. What
matters is what you live for and what you are prepared to die for.
We will die. We could die with regret, guilt, remorse,
and/or resentment. We could also die well.
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